I have just decided to come on this forum as I'm at my wits end and need some advice.
I started seeing my wife in Jan 2004. The first few months were great sexually but things started to gradually downhill after that. I frequently cannot maintain an errection, often losing my erection when my partner takes the initiative or even los
ing it during peneteration. You can imagine how my partner feels - even though she is very understanding. I do want sex but get anxious about it - if that makes sense. As soon as i get these thoughts my erection subsides. Have read a book on resurrecting your sex life, have been for counselling to help me relax and am even going to a homeopath to try and sort it out. Nothing seems to be working. On top of that, we have been trying unsuccessfully for a baby for nearly three years. i dont think my problem has contributed to our lack of success as I have delievered the goods most months. My partner will be going through her second session for fertility treatment next month and I dont want to burden her too much with my problem. Am going to the GP this week - I am seriously thinking of asking to be prescribed one of the drugs for erectile dysfunction. Any suggestions. Also. has anyone taken vitagra which is the herbal version of viagra.